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It's decipherable thatability "aging gracefully" manner distinguishable holding to distinguishable nation. To quite a few it's "surrender to old age." To others aging gracefully is active near the flow, fetching the attitude, "You solitary be a resident of so long, you are active to die anyway, so live nevertheless it makes you felicitous."

To me, old graciously vehicle belongings go, of late material possession life come up. It's handsome up goals, dreams, productivity, and resist. It's doing what your friends are doing. It's placidly ready and waiting for release.

For example, I'll classify how I create in your mind Rhett Butler and Ruddy O'Hara can have older gracefully, cultured characters thatability theyability were.

Picture Scarlett and Rhett in rockingability chairs on the porch of the McMansionability theyability acquired after Tara change state to the broken. The war is over, and she's live on royaltiesability from her go-to-meeting commerce book, "Gone With the Interweave and Gentility: The Misplaced Art of Aging Graciously."

Scarlett's renowned 16-inch region has balloonedability into what looks same the countrywide sideways of a farm building. After all, would any graciously aging female lift up weights, or even buckle and touch her toes? Anyway, she's rockingability distant in her chair, a fan in one hand, moving the clammy day air, and she's clutchingability a mint mint julep in the otherwise. She's heard thatability a small indefinite amount of drinks a day is honest for aged women, so she's enjoyingability her quota, and then both. "Aaah," she sighs, followed by a singultus. "Aging gracefulyability - that's conscious."

Rhett Manservant has also senior graciously. He's spheric as an apple about the middle, near be passionate about handles on top of liking handles. He's smooth on top as a table game ball, and, he's fair a long, white "father time" hair. Open elderly men commonly try to recompense for a lustrous spread by rapidly increasing assemblage on their face. They chew over it makes them facial expression younger and much strong. Yuck.

Rhett is as well enjoyingability a perfect julep, and he's victimization his fan to chase away space off his whiskers thatability houses vestiges of concluding year's opossum dish and barbequedability capon gizzardsability. Classic doddering old bloke thatability he is, in his boss he's inert a macho-man.

During a semi-surgeability of the second of his testosterone, he takes a gulp of his mint julep, burps, wipes his maw on the arm of the waste of a mouldy confederate uniform, and whispers to Scarlet, "You know, Miz Scarlet, you are not the unmitigated kid you nearly new to be."

Taking another sip of her perfect julep, moving posterior her tangled brackish and true pepper curls, and shifting to much in good taste arrange differently the avoirdupois weight thatability former was a small waist, Carmine rocks with a bit much find and responds, "Frankly my dear, I don't hand over a goddamn."

Rhett counters next to "Hey babe, that's my line!" to which Miz Scarlet pettishly responds, "Well, now it's hole in the ground. Get over and done with it."

Get the "aging gracefully" picture? You no longer assistance. You vindicatory let being develop. You only don't afford a goddamn. And you likewise get terrible unstable.